A lot has happened since I last blogged... I was hurt very badly by the least expected person and in the least expected way. My birthday was yesterday. Granted I had fun, but my heart still aches due to the series of events that has occurred this past week. I went to the club Saturday night since my b-day hit at 12. And although I have always been a dancer and like to be the life of the party, I spent the whole time with my boyfriend. Well... ex. Well... idk what he is anymore. My head was saying u shouldn't let this guy have the pleasure of your company but I just wanted to be happy. And despite what he did, that's what I feel when I'm with him. We spent the night in each other's arms and occasionally I'd think, "Run for the hills! You don't want to get hurt again!!!" But the majority of the night was bliss. I felt serene, happy, safe, and above all... LOVED. I believe that he was truly wrong. He knows this. But everybody makes mistakes. I have as well in previous relationships. But this connection we have is too strong. We feel like we're meant to be and I'm not willing to give that up. We're taking time apart, on my call. I need him to experience time without me. To understand the depth of my pain and hurt. And if he truly cares, he'll be waiting. I believe God has created us for each other. He knows that we can grow together and that we make each other better people. God sees that we have already made plans to grow closer to him, with each other. Learning together. All my peoples are telling me to stay away, which is understandable. They don't want to see me get hurt anymore. Yet the decision is mine to make. And I understand the consequences of choosing to believe in our love and him. "Love may be a lot of things, but one thing it certainly is not, is UNSURE!"-Maya Angelo
Monday, March 9, 2009
Stuck B-TW33N a R0CK n A HARD Place
A lot has happened since I last blogged... I was hurt very badly by the least expected person and in the least expected way. My birthday was yesterday. Granted I had fun, but my heart still aches due to the series of events that has occurred this past week. I went to the club Saturday night since my b-day hit at 12. And although I have always been a dancer and like to be the life of the party, I spent the whole time with my boyfriend. Well... ex. Well... idk what he is anymore. My head was saying u shouldn't let this guy have the pleasure of your company but I just wanted to be happy. And despite what he did, that's what I feel when I'm with him. We spent the night in each other's arms and occasionally I'd think, "Run for the hills! You don't want to get hurt again!!!" But the majority of the night was bliss. I felt serene, happy, safe, and above all... LOVED. I believe that he was truly wrong. He knows this. But everybody makes mistakes. I have as well in previous relationships. But this connection we have is too strong. We feel like we're meant to be and I'm not willing to give that up. We're taking time apart, on my call. I need him to experience time without me. To understand the depth of my pain and hurt. And if he truly cares, he'll be waiting. I believe God has created us for each other. He knows that we can grow together and that we make each other better people. God sees that we have already made plans to grow closer to him, with each other. Learning together. All my peoples are telling me to stay away, which is understandable. They don't want to see me get hurt anymore. Yet the decision is mine to make. And I understand the consequences of choosing to believe in our love and him. "Love may be a lot of things, but one thing it certainly is not, is UNSURE!"-Maya Angelo
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I been here before christina && just like yu said it does hurt but everyone needs to grow && im happy yu made the desicion to separate yourself from him for a while . but only God will decide your fate dont let your pretty self be stuck on a guy for to long because what you want may not be what you need! i learned that myself && it did hurt but in the end it was worth it!
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